Starting from scratch is hard.
Especially, if you weren’t planning to do it. It’s one thing to say to yourself, “Next week I’m finally going to invest in my crazy idea.” Or, to take your first step in eating healthier.
But, when “starting from scratch” comes and knocks you on your tail, it can be extremely intimidating. No one likes to be caught off guard. And, it’s not that easy to start from zero.
Starting from scratch takes a lot of courage. Whether you’re planning for it or not, working your way through makes all of us stronger, faster and wiser.
Honestly, all of our experiences become part of life’s learning curve. Not to get all deep and all. However, whatever we learn becomes the base for the next journey. So, as the saying goes…
Don’t be afraid to start over. This time you’re not starting from scratch, you’re starting from experience.
In other words, our experiences bring us to it, but our experiences will also bring us through it. And, all success stories begin with a “start from scratch” situation. Don’t let any pup tell you different. So, in honor of all the pups starting from scratch, here are five things I try to keep in mind as I scratch my way through this journey.
ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
The best thing about starting from scratch is you get to ask for what you want. It doesn’t matter how “crazy” or outlandish your idea is. Ask for whatever you want. Starting from scratch can sometimes get a little stressful. Especially, in times of uncertainty. Asking for what you want will also keep you focused on a goal and help you stay on track as you work to rebuild.
DEFINE SUCCESS
Ok. So, we’ve asked for what we want. However, what does achieving that ask look like? There has to be an end goal. Defining success will give you clear direction as you map out your plans to achieve. Success can be as big or as small as you want it to be. The purpose is to define that success to help you identify what you’re working for.
LOVE YOURSELF THROUGH IT
It is so easy to get down on ourselves when we have to start over. I’ve woofed the “shoulda, woulda, couldas” several times in my life. But, I’ve learned to be kinder to myself. Starting from scratch has often led to a lesson that I wouldn’t have learned if I hadn’t been thrusted into a new normal. But through every struggle, questionable moment or learning curve, I love myself through it. Celebrate with these Peanut Butter & Strawberry Jam Pupcakes for the small and giants leaps I’m taking. And, showing love to the pup that I’m becoming.
FIND A TRIBE
We’ve all had to start from scratch at one point or another. However, having a tribe to hold you accountable and help you through it always makes it easier. Whether it’s your BFF’s, family or even your virtual pups that you only know through social media, a group of pups cheering you on removes the feeling of being alone in your struggle. So, as the saying goes, “Find our tribe and love them hard.” They’re not only there for you as you rebuild, but they can celebrate with you as you hit your goals.
TAKE IT ONE PAW AT TIME
It’s the classic phrase, “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” Rebuilding takes time, patience and belief that things will work themselves out. So, as we journey our way through all of our “start from scratch” moments, it’s best to take it one paw at a time. Small steps always lead to big results.
Starting from scratch can teach us things about ourselves that we never knew existed. We learn and grow with every new experience we have in our “start from scratch” journey. So, I’d love to hear from you.
What is your most memorable “start from scratch” moment? What did you learn from it?
Please share in the comment box below.
I’ve learned that any “starting from scratch” situation is the best way to invest in yourself. So, as we begin to look at new ways to go after our “crazy ideas” while still playing it safe in these uncertain times, here are 5 Ways to Invest in Yourself Without Leaving Home.
